The Flow of Life

A moment in the endless time and space

I have a theory. It sits upon the continuation of time from creation to the endless reaches of the universe.

Recently, I’ve been watching a lot of documentaries and news articles on the findings of Mars and life that used to potentially be there. What they are discovering is that Mars once had flowing water and probably sustained a level of life. What I am about to present to you is a vision I was presented to provide perspective. While there is little evidence to back up my theory, I wished to present it in hopes that it will provide insight for at least one other person. 

Let us, for a moment, consider the truths that we know of our reality.

·      Earth has sustained life for millions of years: dinosaurs, an ice age, the development of human life and so forth.

·      Humans have a recorded history of about 6000 years and many speculations as to how long we have been here, and our evolution. Whichever is your school of thought is yours to follow, and I won’t go on.

·      We have evidence of life on a neighboring planet. Water (or a similar element) once flowed on Mars.

·      Mars once had a stable atmosphere like Earths.

·      Titan (a Saturn moon) also has a sustained atmosphere.

·      Planets are formed from gaseous spheres, much like Jupiter.

·      The Sun is a very young star (by comparison to others that have either burned out or are close to it), and is presently about halfway through its life cycle.

Given all this, a time line might be forming in your head, which is what I hope to present. Over the trillions of years of unrecorded time, we can find that life is indeed a small and fleeting thing, and compare it to the lives once lived. 

In keeping with my theory, we need to create the timeline of events surrounding these major players (Sun, Mars, Earth, Titan and Jupiter). Other planets will get a mention, however their position in this timeline is irrelevant.

So in the beginning of our Solar system, several eons ago, the sun burst into life.

Its huge gravitational force pulled together several large meteors that collided and destroyed each other, leaving only a handful of survivors and a belt of debris. This is the slow birthing of the Solar System. Not all planets would have been in place at this stage; however it is fairly clear that the majority were present.

Over the millions of years that followed, several of the large meteors turned planets formed atmospheres. These would not all have happened at the same time, and not all of them have lasted. Mercury’s proximity to the sun has burned ts atmosphere away, and Venus’ is so hot that the air is a powerful force equal to that of 3000ft below sea level. The atmosphere is maintained, however probably very damaged. All other planets either gained their atmospheres (regardless of whether they remain intact or not) or were never fortunate enough to develop one.  

From within these domed planets evolved the many different planets life forces. The fastest was Mars. Mars had life grow and evolve into something that is equal to that of our own. I couldn’t say if they were human, humanoid or something far beyond our knowing.

Somewhere in this muddled history, the beings of Mars were wiped out and the atmosphere was worn away by the solar force of the sun. While Mars retains its atmosphere, it is 1/100 that of Earths, and unable to sustain life. And while all this happened on Mars, Earth was either forming itself in one way, or living through the millions or billions of years that were the age of dinosaurs. In any and all events, we can only guess when things came to a pass. However, given the circumstances, it is not beyond belief to imagine the beings of Mars, with whatever technology they had, watching Earth and its prehistoric beings.  

So now we arrive at our history, dinosaurs, man, etc. We are still exceptionally young by all comparison, and are still learning to develop our own ways of being. And now we cast our minds forward to the future. It has been discovered that the icy depths of Titan have a fully formed atmosphere. It is far too cold for human life, as instead of water, the main liquid is nitrogen. Nitrogen turns to liquid and boils at -195C. At freezes at -210C. Footage back from Titan even shows it snowing nitrogen. So while it is far too cold for human life, perhaps it is in the exceptionally early stages of making its own form of life. They would find Earth (humans or not) about on par with us going to live on Venus (surface temperature 462C). Mars, in retrospect is about 20C on the equator at noon, and drops to -153 at the poles.

So with the science now done, perhaps I have started the chain reaction in your mind. The eons that have been and the eons yet to be. Here we sit in the middle of this present empire of humans. We have a fleeting moment in the extensive history, no more apparent than that of a heartbeat in a human lifetime or a blink in a day. Someday the human world will cave in from one thing or another. It could be the mistreatment of the planet and the destruction of our atmosphere, or it could be we simply kill each other because one God is better than the other. Who knows?

Where you are sitting reading this now, visualize the passing of all these events: Mars created and lost life, watching us in one of our primitive forms. We now look at Mars and wonder about the history and the evidence of water there. The future will have the beings of Titan doing the same.

Jupiter, even in itself, is still rather young in the scheme of things. It is more a contained ball of gases trying to take form. Much like many things in this universe, it is at the beginning point. Our planet might have been like that once too. Perhaps our solar system has an even longer history than we realize. Destroyed planets that watched the life of Mars as they watched us, and gaseous clouds made other planets, and the chain of events flows on in a neat and well-timed pattern. None knowing the previous is watching and the next is an exceptionally long way away from creation, or is still in an exceptionally early stage. Who can say for sure what will happen, because we will not be around to find out.

Now my theory is not quite finished because I want to expand your mind even further. I want you to focus on the Sun, our brightest and closest star. It has a very long life of numbers higher than I care to name. Our nearest star, Alpha Centauri A and B, both radiate with the same strength. These stars have all lived for a certain age, and will, like all things, eventually die. The color of a star indicates its age. If it is blue or white, it is relatively young and just starting out its life. If a star is white to yellow, much like our sun, it is around the same age bracket. The more yellow, then orange and red, the older it is and closer to dying and becoming a supernova. So every star lives its own relative cycle of life. And scientists theorize that the gases left over from a burst star will eventually reform over millions of years to create another sun, and the cycle will start over. This is human life and reincarnation at a massive level. And all within these eons of time and evolution we are less than one hundred years individually, and as a race less than 2 million. From this, we have a very clear perspective of time, events and their continuation before, during and after our lives.

I have a theory. It sits upon the continuation of time from creation to the endless reaches of the universe.

Theory linking

This entry is for two reasons; it is to shw how some of my theories intertwine, and it is important to read them to make sense of this, and t demonstrate the point through the argument of abortion. 
    In recent discussions with friends on line and a continuation of The Evolution of the Human Soul I delved into the idea of what the soul would learn as a fetus, and what it means to have an abortion.
It isn't as common in news headlines, but it was once common practice for Christian and other religious groups to protest outside abortion clinics and not allow women through. It was seen as murder of a child who had no choice on what happened to them, nor did they see it as a redeemable sin. Part of my theory is an attack on this school of thought, but it is also to allow deeper insight into the evolution of the soul and what needs to be learned before we can advance. Amoungst some of these things are the different phases of life and survival within the womb.
    Living in the womb, as we know, is quite different from anything we will experiece with our concious minds. We hear the continuous sounds of heartbeats, lungs breathing, organs working and exterior noises we cannot comprehend, and I can only imagine it to be quite medatative, however repedative. We do not eat, breathe or use our mouths for anything short of opening and closing. We don't use our genitals or rears to dispose of waste, and we can do little more than simply stay curled up in fluids that probably neither taste nor smell good (if we had concious memory of that either). Conciously, we remember nothing. Subconciously, we remember everything. Every last moment f our existance is recorded here like a never-ending video camera. It is here we can experience the world of a growing fetus and what it might be like with a concious mind. It is here that we cmmunicate wih he higher self and it communicates with us and it is here that our life lessons are learned.
    Now, not being a doctor, I can only guess and what a baby could learn in the womb, but the higher self, while in the candy store, has agreed with someone to split ther sweets this life, and the mother will either miscarry or abort the child. In either circumstance, the higher self of both mother and child will learn and it is part of the completion of the candy store.
    Abortions are a freewill choice, and as explained in Theory of Balance, there is a freewill choice to be made. If we could not have abortions, the world would be over-populated and chaotic, because there are thousands, if not millions of children aborted every year. These children are the results of an accidental condom break, not using a condom at all, the pill failing, miscalculation and so on. The child, loved though that it might be, the mother has made the difficult decission (as for most, it is difficult) to give up the child in an abortion.
I have taken a look at the 10 arguments against abortion and here are the arguements ad the spiritual and material reasons why and why not.
    First arguement is that it is murder, and this expands across a number of their statements. Argueably, yes it is murder, as the child has no choice if it lives or dies. Practically, the child won't have a lot of choice for a nuber of years. And following that, this and none of the other arguements have looked at the point that some parents cannot afford to look after a child. Arguement nine is that a lot of women who are having abortions are undereducated on the results of abortion. If they are undereducated in that, what chances do they have of looking after a child for the ext eighteen plus years? Some can't get pensions, some have nowhere to live, some have no one to support them. Shuold they carry a child around as well to add to their survival? I don't deny a child can tur some of them into good parents, but it isn't a cure to that either. Spiritually, this lesson for the mother is to live without something she may want or to wonder what if. true, it is painful to say people need to learn this, true some regret it, but many don't, because they needed to pt themselves first. The guilt and regret are the same we might feel at a relatives death. What if they lived longer for me? You'll never know. What yu did know is that a child was a bad idea because it would bring you to ruin.
    Following arguements are about prevention of children in cases of rape or incest. You ahve 24-48 hours to take this choice, and it is a form of abortion, so this arguement impails on itself. And I'm happy to guess that the number of people who say this have not been raped. the shame you feel after being raped, the uncertainty and pain, you need to deal with all that first. If you discover you are pregnant, then the abortion can be dealt with later when you MIGHT be a litle more emotioally secure. The abortion could make your emotional situation worse, might make it easier. Could you look at a child knowing it was a product of being raped? If your answer was yes, I don't honestly think you have been raped. But I could be worng. Rape is a painful experience and one our souls will have to go through at one point or another, and it sucks, but of all the women I have spoken to, there is no chance they would keep a child of rape if their rapes led to that.
    The next arguement is adoption, and this is where I do agree, a child can be given up for adoption. I know people who have had to learn that this life. they want to know their birth parents badly and probably never will. I know parents who have lost children to adoption and are sad that their children have not come to find them after they have opened the file for them t find out who they are. And if every child had been born, we'd be back to over-population. I know it doesn't seem like much in places like Australia or America, but in China, a baby is born once every 23 seconds. Add in all the abortions and you'd be looking at a baby every 12 seconds at an estimate. Still think it is a good idea? Adoption is a lesson we have to learn, some children will be born and given to adoption clinics and that part of life goes on. This is a freewill choice of the mother, which is the same as having an abortion or not.
    Next arguement; abortion is used as a form of controseption. And this is quite true. Arguement ten is also true, in that abortions can have both psychological and physical repocussions. First of all, I agree with point one, in that abortion is not a god idea on a continuous basis, and is most commonly the result of sleeping around, and probably being paid for it. Look at that, another life lesson. And it is true that abortion can cause problems medically and mentally. Did you know birth can do the same, and that in a number of women, having a child gave the lupus, which can kill. It is also like taking some medicines, in that you might not be aware of the side effects until it is too late. Or being spiked with LSD, in that you will relive the trip unexpectably and unpredictably for the rest f your life. there is more than one thing in life that will cause anguish, and we need to accept that we cannot be protected forever and that nothing is failsafe. We will have to risk something eventually, and that very few of us will go through life from start to finish without that risk in their concious decission making.
    Finally, it is argued that tax payers shouldn't fund abrtion clinics. That is up for people to decide what they think. My opinion is that the tax payers are getting something they might need t use, and if not, they are helping someone else It is better than the old alternative from less than 100 years ago, where a pregnant woman was beaten in the abdomin a few times with excessive force to have an abortion. It is safer and less painful in MOST circumstances.
   Now, what I have describbed in my upper responces is scenarios in many different directions. What you will find is that each one is one we can relate to somehow, even if not directly.
   The basis is of this is to extend the link between two of my theories so that people can understand what we have to g through to evolve as souls, why giving people a choice is important, and the conciquences of not having a choice. This interlinking of theory can also include the Restarunts of Destiny theory, in that one/many of these things are a life lesson to a person, but it is up to us before incarnation, before we become a part of this cycle again.

Theory of Balance

I have a theory, it is based on the principles of the Yin and Yang.

Through many years of spiritual work, I have been asked, or told, that people do not wish to feel certain ways, or believe that they shouldn’t have to go through certain things. In this, the emotions they are feeling or facing up to, they are engaging in a part of the delicate balance of human experience.

In the creation of humans, emotions were selected for us to experience, and each one is balanced by an opposite. For example, it has been expressed to me that humans shouldn’t feel anger. When looking at it, the world would probably be a better place without anger, but when we eliminate one emotion,we must also eliminate its opposite. In this example, without anger, we cannot feel happiness. When happiness is removed, we cannot feel sadness, and when it is removed, we cannot feel excitement, and without excitement we cannot feel depression, and on the cycle goes. Every emotion has more than one opposite, and when one opposite is removed, the other is removed, and all its counterparts are removed and so on. In this, as well as removing emoitions, we remove our freewill, because without certain emotions, we cannot have free will.

This chain reaction can exist on more than just the emotional level, as stated. It can exist on a level of taking actions. We all disagree with war, and that the terror and destruction that it causes and the hatred that is a result are all negative things, but if we cannot have grand scale war, or the potential to go to a grand scale war, we cannot have peace on a grand scale. There would be no uniting of nations, no peace treatys between countries and there would be even less chance of us getting along.

Even on a minor level does this intricate system exist. We all hate/dislike/disapprove of something, but when that something is removed completely, its existance, and its counterparts, also fail to have any meaning. An issue close to me is discrimination. Hatred for homosexuals, different races, etc, comes from a need for balance. If no one hates one of these things, then no one can like them either, because the balance is thrown out and we are not free to choose. Our disliking comes from something, be it an experience, a stereotype forced or simply a lack of understanding or even fear. but even in having a good experience, destroying stereotypes, making up our own minds or understanding and accepting do we see this balance in play.

Exercise

In your own mind, choose four things sabout the world. These can be types of people, recreational events, things, emotions, or anything.

*One should be something you love more than anything (karaoke)

*One thing should be something you hate more than anything (descrimination)

*One should be something you don’t dislike, but don’t really go for either (sports)

*The last should be something you dont enjoy, but wouldn’t deny anyone else (drug use)

In these four things think of their opposites, or something that is simply opposing.

Karaoke – Reading

Descrimination – Acceptance

Sports – Lethargy

Drug Use – Detox Program

Now, in your minjd, as best as you can, imagine one of these things being removed from the world. It’s not too hard, is it?

Now remove the other thing with it, and see what your mind comes to then. In some examples, the world might seem a better place without either. But in other causes, it can make the world a darker and uglier place. Or, in some cases, it could set human history back hundreds, or thousands of years.

Eg: My last options were Drug Use and Detoxification Programs. One is for your health and one is destructive to your health. One is inclined to heal while the other does dmage. On the other hand, one is more fun than the other and one is more cost effective than the other.

Yes, it is easy to see a world without drug use, but its opposite, Detoxification, would be removed as well. So while in this circumstance there is no way to damage your body, there is no way to heal it either. On expansion, there is no way for disease to spread as we know drug use can cause, but there is no way to cure other diseases at the same time. There is no temptation in the drug use, but there is no healthier alternative to take either. This cycle thrown out, we would be a very sick and dying race. The cycle has suddenly expanded to a level beyond repair or comprehension.

What I have come to accept, though I sometimes find it difficult, is that there is one thing because there is another to counter-act it. Like the many examples given above, the world moves on a level of giving two options, both unique and different with both capable of making or breaking a life.

Organised religion – Atheist

Drug Use - Detoxifrication

Violence – Peace

Temptation – Resistance

Acceptance – Denial

Law – Crime

Life – Death

With each opposite is a balance and a system that creates an endless list of choices for what we want to do with our lives. This grand, delicate and complicated system was created for us to live a life that is both confused and clarified, understandable yet disoriented, simple yet difficult.

The human experience will face all of these things as time goes by, and as some things are removed, more will be there to take their place. In a poor but simple example, is disease. The world met with the Black Plauge many years ago, and after a while, a cure was found. As it was removed, the prelude to HIV AID’s was born (indirectly) and as it grew and took shape over many years, we now have a new deadly virus to deal with and lives to lose between then, now and a cure. When HIV AIDs is cured, and the immunities our bodies need to fight it are spread through the worlds DNA, another disease will be born somewhere quietly, and slowly grow into something as fierce, deadly and destructive to human life. But at the same time that this happens, we are given the protections we need to fight against other diseases, other illnesses and the science needed to slowly but surely find a cure. In this grand balance, we have choices to make and options to consider.

In the closing notes to this theory, there is simply one thing I can offer to all my clients, all my friends and all those who feel that life is difficult, and it is that life is difficult for a reason. We face these choices and challenges because there is an opposite to achieve or deny, depending on the circumstances. If we face drug abuse, there is a fight to give it up and cure ourselves. If we face descrimination, or are descriminators, there is a challenge to find acceptence of people and their opinions, beliefs, life choices and ways of life. And as the cycle goes on and on througout the timespan of humanity and beyond, we will be faced with several challenges, be it physical, emotional, mental, creative, spiritual, and so on. What we need to see is the destination that is the end of the chalenge. The opposite that is the alternative, and whether we are going towards or moving away from it, which is the better choice and which will make us a better person for it. I pray for all of you that you find the answers you seek to the challenges of your life.

I have a theory, it is based on the principles of the Yin and Yang.

Theory: The Structure of the Multiverses

I have a theory. it is based on the structire of the Universe and the Multiverse. 
I would like to add a personal thank you to Morriganscrow, whos teachings to me have been included in this theory and helped me put it all together. Thank you so much MC, you have been the brightest spiritual light in my life and the best teacher to me in the spiritual and shamanic ways.
As we know, we live in what might be describbed as a quiet corner of the universe, and considering that we have no contact with other E.T's, it is somewhat true. And as we can image from simply looking up into a stary sky, there are certainly many worlds out there for us to eventually explore. But my theory goes into explaining our hidden other-worldly connections to the outtter realms of our own.
As far as your imagination can expand on, there are going to be several differences between our universe and others. We are certianly not the only planet with human life, or human-like beings. The difference between the realsms and their inhabitants is their existance and what is and isn't possible. The old saying is that 'Anything's possible,' and to that extent, it is true, just it isn't all possible here.
All realms are made up of a balance of the many elements. There are more elements beyond your knowledge and understanding, but in our world at least, here are the ones that make up our basis.
Earth: Everything that is physical.
Water: Everything that is liquid, or liquid based.
Air: Everything gasious, including oxygen, hydrogen and all other gases discovered.
Fire: The middle element that creates and destroys.
Wood: The living element of growth and sustaining life in many forms.
Metal: From iorn and zinc to the combination of earth that makes crystals and minerals.
Spirit: Everything that is religious and the common link of energy.
These elements are all in a divine balance to create our universe. We have both the physical and spiritual symbols of these things on a macro and micro level. Macro being the big picture of life and the micro being our individual lives. And between our unvierse and the next universe, the levels of the elements change, different combinations can be made and different realities are made.
In example: our world possesses very little physical magic that we can only view in television and video games, but other realms have this magic and spiritual power at their everyday disposal. However, they might have a very low level of fire, meaning that their technology, creativity and force could be centuries behind ours.
But we do have spiritual connections with other worlds and realms that we have not had physical contact with. A lot of  these places have been turned into inspirations for our fictional lives. Such realms are that of Dungeons and Dragons/Lord of the Rings, Yugioh, Star Wars/Trek and so on. These realms exist beyond our own, and perhaps not to the level or description that we have of them, but the inspiration is from the same place.
In my own experience is the realm of Yugioh. In a past life, I had fallen in love with a beautiful woman, but she was betrothed to another man. It was agreed by all that if IO could slay a Blue Eyes White Dragon (see image below) and bring back it's head, she would marry me instead of the man she was betrothed to. I went out and was never heard of again. Most assumed, and correctly so, that I had been eaten. I have since met the woman and her love of that life again in this life, and our interests in similar subjects all tie it together.

Our past lives can, and sometimes do, go to other realsm to learn and grow, and we can experience these things through our dreams and past life hypnosys. These realms are beyond our reach physically, and our element balance may or may not be able to measure up to theirs or even survive in theirs, and vice versa. But our realm has inspired others as they have inspired us. Some inspirations have been positive re-enforcement, some negative. Some have been mistranslated and others have been over-analysed, but they are still there.
And while we cannot see them properly, there are E.T's living amoung us. This is not in the Sci-fi way that is running through your mind, but in a spiritual form. These are beings known as Starpeople and are as physically human as you and me, but their souls and their continuous reincarnation cycle is based on the realms of another time and place, and are certainly very different to ours. Haven spoken with a few starpoeple, many describe that their life here is that is misery or disappointment because of the way people treat each other. Their souls are so used to another place that is peaceful and (more often than not) very nature-based. As the text in the link describes, Starpeople might live a few lives here, doing their best to make a change, and usually dream of UFO's and being taken away to a place that is home.
As for any other contact we might have from the other realms, well, there is good and bad news on that front. The good news is that they have made contact with us, in both Star People and from distant observing, and we are definately on the map of the multiverses. but on the other hand, we are viewed as such a destructive race, that we are a quarentined place.
In the structure that is the universe, we can also safely say that time is a different measurement from ours. When we think of time, we think of one long and continuous string of events, and that is what time is for us. We cannot physically bend time to fit our own cause or likes, but it is possible in other realms. In other realms, time has a completely different shape. In some places it is spiral-shaped, in that people can be in two or more places at once. Other places have time as a wave, or even a square. How these last two examples of time might work is beyond my explanation, but it is still how these realms measure it. So for us to be able to access this power of time means for us to move through one or many black hoes to find it. And there is no garantee we could actually find it, as the scientifically descrtibbed and spiritually based defence system insures we cannot cross over. The crushing force of a black hole insures we aren't going anywhere. At the same time, it ensures no one unwelcome is coming here.
The next stage of the explaining of the multiverse is to explain our own a little more. It is said that our universe is constantly expanding. This is quite true. The universe is expanding, and will eventually reach it's limit and contract again. Each universe in the multiverse is simply in the existance of a heartbeat of the Goddess. In it's most poetic form, the lifetime of a universe is but a heartbeat of the Goddess. Each universe, a pearl upon her delicate neck, lives its life and falls with every beat of her heart, to be replaced with another that will alst the same time. Within that time lives every life, goes past several experiences and the worlds of those who live to see them become, build and fall again.
In a rough, inaccurate, but certainly the best way to describe the map of the multiverses, is to look at a necklace that is a lot of chain links put together as shown below. Each point where the chains meet is a universe, the links between them the portals that are guarded by black and white wholes, and lead to each other universe.

From here, we can only speculate other life forms. Some are said to be somewhat human in either physical form or intellignence or nature. Some have longer lives than we do, others live in completely different forms to ours. But whatever it is, we can be sure that they are there and that they have their own worlds, problems and ways just like we do. I hope that, in the future, we will reach a level of peace and development that will allow the other worlds to see that we are more peaceful than what we are now.
I have a theory. it is based on the structire of the Universe and the Multiverse.

Theory: The Restarunts of Destiny

I have a theory. It is based on the major events of our lives. I would like to say thank you to Liv Watts for providing me with the basis of this theory, to which I have expanded the details. Liv, High Priestess of the Aurora Australis Witan Shrine and one of my Pagan Aunts, thank you so much for your help.
This theory is based on a part of palmistry that I come across quite freaquently in my line of work, it is known as the destiny line. The Destiny Line (or lines) are indicators of major events in your life that cannot be avoided and that we pre-set ourselves before we incarnated (1). These events must come to pass, either in this or another life, and the events are so powerful in our lives that they are going to appear in any part of divination that we aproach, be it palmistry, tarot, runes or scrying. These events can range from illness to personal life changes that are forced on us to events that we are at the centre of that we cannot control. Many of these events tie into one another, as the event/s themselves change us as people, for better or worse.
In an earlier theory I explained how we predetermine our existence here on earth, in this life, by choosing from a mass candy store. Some of the sweets we choose are not ones we take with us when we leave, they are simply an advance booking to be eaten at a later date. this pre-ordred dessert will be served to us at the Restarunts of Destiny.As we go through our lives, we will eventually have to go to the restarunt of Destiny and eat there. There are many things to consider when facing this part of our lives, in the same example as in going out to eat. Here are my main topic points within this theory, and how the relate to the event/s in our lives.
What we wear to go out: The experiences of our life before now
Who we go with: The people who will be involved in our Destiny as it unfolds.
How you get there: The style represents your life.
The Style of Restarunt: The designs of our Destiny and the things we must face.
Where we sit: This is ultimutely decided based on how well you are going to deal with the situation.
What you eat: The main body of the events unfolding.
How much you pay: How much you have to give to get through this event.
How much you tip: The amount of thanks you give to whoever (human, deity or otherwise) supports you through this time.
How you leave: The style of your life after the events.
While some of these things might seem odd in comparrison, i will explain them shortly.


Understanding Destony
 From the many ideas that hollywood and a lot of authors have put into our minds, our Destiny is the goal in life that we are set up to achieve, come what may. this is somewhat true. In times and realms of such dealings, it is more common for a person to perhaps have to face a time where their skills as a warrior and nobleness of their soul would determine their victory. However, here on earth, in this day and age, our Destiny is set out a little differently, and has been for some time.
A Destiny is a set of events, as previously explained, and has to do with the learning of our souls as they trasgress through many lives. But once we have forfilled our Destiny's here on Earth, does not mean that our lives are over. it means that we have faced the major tests we have set for ourselves in this life, and that what we have set ourselves to do as a concious being (eg: occupation, family life, social recreation, etc) are still important factors, and we can continue to lead forfilling lives beyond this one time.
Destiny's, for whatever reason the soul needs, can be fatal. One example would be to face cancer, and lose the battle. I do not wish to frighten and suggest that your Destiny is inevitably going to kill you, but it is more likely that it may, depending on the situation. The soul needs to learn many things, and so therefore it must face these realities too. The reality that we can die without finishing what we feel we were placed here to do, what we feel we haven't done for ourselves or others and what it is we think we have to live for. No one is immune to the truths and facts of death, and death waits for no task to be finished.
However, I have also learned in my readings that Destiny, especially for some people, is an important time in their lives and as the potential to become the highest power they can be (good, evil or otherwise). The truth is that a lot of people have their Destinys tied in with their psychic abilities. their Destony is that the things they will face, the challenges to their health, perception, life path and so on, are what will truly awaken their spiritual and psychic side. It is often heard that famous psychics and mediums have had their abilities awakened after suffering physical and/or mental truma. This might be a car crash, a miscarriage, a sudden death or painful battle with an illness. What they soon discover is that they have awakened a new power within them that is highly useful to them and others. This does not suggest, however, everyone will go through this, have their psychic side awakened via their Destiny (if it all) and it is certainly not a guarantee of what is your Destiny.
Lastly, a Destiny is not set in the stones of time, but more like the sands. While there is an average time for a Destiny to unfold (commonly in people's 30's) it can be moved, depending upon the person and their personal development. The Destiny can be moved closer to the present because the person has matured faster than expected or (depending) they have sunk faster than expected. The same principals might effect in pushing the Destiny further down the time line, making it deeper into our lives than when it was pretermined. Either way, the Destony can be moved through our timeline, but is not avoidable. If you do not face your Destiny this time, you will face it in another life.
It is also possible (and in a number of circumstances, is) that a person can have more than one Desitny. These Destinys can be linked and spaced through time or can be two completely different things. In my own example, I have  a brain tumor that has caused a number of medical issues that are still with me today. However, my Destiny in this is not yet finished, and will come again in the next 6 years, either through the discovery of some level of cure, the ability to restore my lost vision or hormone imbalance, or a combination of any. In other instances, two different Destiny's for one person could be to face a medical issue when older, but deal with life changes such as adoption or loss of innocence when young. In any example, the Destiny's will come to pass.


The Visit to the Restarunt
When it comes time face our Destiny, it is best explained as a visit to a restarunt. In the highlighted steps earlier, I will explain the journey and how it all comes together to be our Destiny.
Predetermining Events: As previously explained, this is our choice of a major dessert to which we will eat at the Restarunt. Dessert will be served after our main meal and (if choosen) Entre. When in the candy store, we chose our desserts, and for each dessert is a visit to one of the Restarunts of Destiny. We need to go and eat there at some point (as explained in the time setting and movement of Destiny). From here, we are now ready to go out.
What We Wear: The experiences of our lives, doing whatever it is we choose to do and whatever it is we learn in the smaller lessons of life that are simply fate and luck. If we have had a very good run in life, and had things handed to us or simply been lucky in getting to a good position, we might wear a tuxedo and carry a cane and top hat. If we are more family orientated, we might wear a good dress shirt and pants and look respectable. In all respects, our clothing reflects very much our life at that point and the things we have faced, presently facing, learned, are learning, experienced and so forth. You can wear whatever you want, but it is very much going to reflect who you are. The clothing and accessorys might not even match, depending on how much we have been through in life up to that point.
Who we go with: While it is not going to be obvious from the beginning, we will not go to the restarunt alone. A family person may take their family members, while a street peddler might take some of the clients and dealers. The people who go with us are presently in our lives, but they are not the only ones who will be eating with us at the restarunt. If our Destiny is medical, you can expect to be dining with some doctors and nurses. If our Destiny is work related, we might be eating with some big CEO's and businessmen. People will stay for all three courses as well as bread sticks before and coffee afterwards, but it is safe to say that people might leave during the meal, not feel like eating all courses of the meal or have their own things to attend. In all examples, people will come and go. Some might return, some might be late, some might just take a bathroom break. But the people will come and go.
How we get there: Needless to say, we need to get to Restarunt somehow. This is reflected in two ways. the means of transport is the image, but it reflects on two things: one is our lives leading up to the restarunt, and the other is reflective of the style of our lives, as explained earlier. In each person's life, as we well know, we almost always have something going on, whether it be our daily life or extra things on top of that. It is most certain that not everyone is going to arrive by car. In my own example, I might show up in a taxi, on a bike or perhaps my restarunt is right near to a train station or bus stop. Some people might arrive by helicopter, boat, paddlesteamer or (in some instances) other worldly transit, but it is all down to the person. Some of it reflects our lives and interests, while other aspects might represnt who we are. But the journey is still the same for all of us, it is simply our lives from start o finish.
The Style of Restarunt: The Restarunt is all important. It reflects very much what it is we are facing. Some people, like myself, have a good idea what the Restarunt is going to look like, or what it might reflect to us personally. But some of us have no idea, and simply walk in blind to the things that await. This is not to suggest that people are blind to their Destiny, and that it can be prewarned to them in their lives. After that, they need to see the signs leading to the restarunt before their arrival. the restarunt itself reflects its aspects. It might remind us of a hospital, a part of our lives that we do not face or an aspect of life itself we do not enjoy. For example, someone who is destined to question their sexuality might come to a restarunt with the rainbow flag in neon above the door. Someone destined to face a major change in life might dine at a restarunt named 'Changes' which is collision of many building styles on the outside and inside. In all events, the outside and inside reflect very much the basis of events to come.
What We Eat: For our meal, we can order whatever we want. You can have a Cheese burger and fries in a five star restarunt, or a steak well done with salad and pasta in a corner cafe. The menu is as large as your imagination is wide and you can order whatever food you want, as can your dinner guests. What the different meals will represent are the major choices within the Destiny we face. Will we have chicken or beef? Won't we have fries with that? Should we have the experimental surgery? Could we possibly be seeing the world in a different light? Would it be so bad if I did this? The mix of questions and their symbolic links are all there. The number of courses you have is up to you and the people you dine with, and sometimes your hand will beforeced, and sometimes it won't. But as we eat, we are making the choices. And these choices are not only in the food, but how we eat. Mutton with your fingers? Fetachinni with chopsticks? Soup with a fork? Whatever works for you in this dining experience. 
How Much We Pay: Yes, this is as literal as it sounds. We face our Destiny to reach who it is we really should be and the major challenges we preset. Destiny, more often than not, is designed delicately to make us who we are supposed to be. Failure to forfill means going back and doing it again. In retrospect, not paying your bill is a good sign you will be doing dishes in the kitchen to work it off. We will inevitably have to give something up, volunterrily or not, to forfill our Destiny. I gave up quite a bit to get to this point of my Destiny, and I don't look back and regret it for a minute. It may be a pain in the arse to be taking my pills, not seeing as well and keeping many doctors appointments, but it has made me stronger, and I don't know any other way of living. But I gave up a lot to be here, and it will be the same for everyone. We won't always have a choice in the price of the restarunt, but we will need to pay. Not paying means our Destiny just takes longer to forfill until death, incarnation and repeating do you part, or working it off another way which is just as tedious. More often than not, this is the part of Destiny we all fear, and that is the change. But for some of us, the cange is forced, not choosen, and we need to face it. But should your Destiny yet to be forfilled, you need to be brave and pay the man at the cash register, and be sure that there is something most satisfying in paying for what has (or will be eventually viewed as) a good meal.
How Much We Tip: I do not expect everybody to follow this part, because, tipping is always optional. But for the people who have served us our destiny and have put a lot of effort into making something worth wild, you can be sure a tip is most welcome. For religious people like myself, it may be praise to your respective deity for aiding you, it may be offerings of food to an alter, donations to charity (in money, clothing or food) or simply acting in accordance with your Destiny. I am thankful to my spiritual beings every day that I am here to live my life, and that they Deity saw fit for me to live, and guided my Destiny where I was unable to choose for myself. I give back to my community and will continue to do so for many years to come. The work is always good. And for everyone, regurdless of the events of our Destiny, we should be grateful that we are beyond it and are (hopefully) better for it, or pray for guidance when we next face our Destiny.
How We Leave: As continuously stated, we will change throughout the course of our Destiny. We will become slightly or dramatically different people with new things we now know about ourselves, perhaps new things to live with/out and we need to adjust to that. This will dramatically effect our trasport away from the Restarunt, who we travel with and where we are going. We will still head to the end of our lives in our respective transport, but we will certainly be different for it. We might be in a completely different mode of transport when we leave. The important part of it is to accept the way we now travel through our lives. And, odds are, we may have even changed clothing, accessories and hair styles during our visit, and that is all apart of the event itself.


So what is it about us that makes us need a Destiny? It is the learning process of the soul. We cannot understand it from our perspective here on earth, or at least not completely, but if you read my earlier theory it will hopefully explain most of it to you, as this theory goes into explaining some of the choices we make between incarnations.
I have a theory. It is based on the major events of our lives. To you, whoever you are, I hope that your Destiny is a wonderful adventure, an experience for life and a turning point for your soul and it's evolution. Bon Appetit.

Earlier Theory (1): http://bookoftheory.blogspot.com/2010/12/theory-evolution-of-human-soul.html