Monday, December 20, 2010

Theory: The Restarunts of Destiny

I have a theory. It is based on the major events of our lives. I would like to say thank you to Liv Watts for providing me with the basis of this theory, to which I have expanded the details. Liv, High Priestess of the Aurora Australis Witan Shrine and one of my Pagan Aunts, thank you so much for your help.
This theory is based on a part of palmistry that I come across quite freaquently in my line of work, it is known as the destiny line. The Destiny Line (or lines) are indicators of major events in your life that cannot be avoided and that we pre-set ourselves before we incarnated (1). These events must come to pass, either in this or another life, and the events are so powerful in our lives that they are going to appear in any part of divination that we aproach, be it palmistry, tarot, runes or scrying. These events can range from illness to personal life changes that are forced on us to events that we are at the centre of that we cannot control. Many of these events tie into one another, as the event/s themselves change us as people, for better or worse.
In an earlier theory I explained how we predetermine our existence here on earth, in this life, by choosing from a mass candy store. Some of the sweets we choose are not ones we take with us when we leave, they are simply an advance booking to be eaten at a later date. this pre-ordred dessert will be served to us at the Restarunts of Destiny.As we go through our lives, we will eventually have to go to the restarunt of Destiny and eat there. There are many things to consider when facing this part of our lives, in the same example as in going out to eat. Here are my main topic points within this theory, and how the relate to the event/s in our lives.
What we wear to go out: The experiences of our life before now
Who we go with: The people who will be involved in our Destiny as it unfolds.
How you get there: The style represents your life.
The Style of Restarunt: The designs of our Destiny and the things we must face.
Where we sit: This is ultimutely decided based on how well you are going to deal with the situation.
What you eat: The main body of the events unfolding.
How much you pay: How much you have to give to get through this event.
How much you tip: The amount of thanks you give to whoever (human, deity or otherwise) supports you through this time.
How you leave: The style of your life after the events.
While some of these things might seem odd in comparrison, i will explain them shortly.


Understanding Destony
 From the many ideas that hollywood and a lot of authors have put into our minds, our Destiny is the goal in life that we are set up to achieve, come what may. this is somewhat true. In times and realms of such dealings, it is more common for a person to perhaps have to face a time where their skills as a warrior and nobleness of their soul would determine their victory. However, here on earth, in this day and age, our Destiny is set out a little differently, and has been for some time.
A Destiny is a set of events, as previously explained, and has to do with the learning of our souls as they trasgress through many lives. But once we have forfilled our Destiny's here on Earth, does not mean that our lives are over. it means that we have faced the major tests we have set for ourselves in this life, and that what we have set ourselves to do as a concious being (eg: occupation, family life, social recreation, etc) are still important factors, and we can continue to lead forfilling lives beyond this one time.
Destiny's, for whatever reason the soul needs, can be fatal. One example would be to face cancer, and lose the battle. I do not wish to frighten and suggest that your Destiny is inevitably going to kill you, but it is more likely that it may, depending on the situation. The soul needs to learn many things, and so therefore it must face these realities too. The reality that we can die without finishing what we feel we were placed here to do, what we feel we haven't done for ourselves or others and what it is we think we have to live for. No one is immune to the truths and facts of death, and death waits for no task to be finished.
However, I have also learned in my readings that Destiny, especially for some people, is an important time in their lives and as the potential to become the highest power they can be (good, evil or otherwise). The truth is that a lot of people have their Destinys tied in with their psychic abilities. their Destony is that the things they will face, the challenges to their health, perception, life path and so on, are what will truly awaken their spiritual and psychic side. It is often heard that famous psychics and mediums have had their abilities awakened after suffering physical and/or mental truma. This might be a car crash, a miscarriage, a sudden death or painful battle with an illness. What they soon discover is that they have awakened a new power within them that is highly useful to them and others. This does not suggest, however, everyone will go through this, have their psychic side awakened via their Destiny (if it all) and it is certainly not a guarantee of what is your Destiny.
Lastly, a Destiny is not set in the stones of time, but more like the sands. While there is an average time for a Destiny to unfold (commonly in people's 30's) it can be moved, depending upon the person and their personal development. The Destiny can be moved closer to the present because the person has matured faster than expected or (depending) they have sunk faster than expected. The same principals might effect in pushing the Destiny further down the time line, making it deeper into our lives than when it was pretermined. Either way, the Destony can be moved through our timeline, but is not avoidable. If you do not face your Destiny this time, you will face it in another life.
It is also possible (and in a number of circumstances, is) that a person can have more than one Desitny. These Destinys can be linked and spaced through time or can be two completely different things. In my own example, I have  a brain tumor that has caused a number of medical issues that are still with me today. However, my Destiny in this is not yet finished, and will come again in the next 6 years, either through the discovery of some level of cure, the ability to restore my lost vision or hormone imbalance, or a combination of any. In other instances, two different Destiny's for one person could be to face a medical issue when older, but deal with life changes such as adoption or loss of innocence when young. In any example, the Destiny's will come to pass.


The Visit to the Restarunt
When it comes time face our Destiny, it is best explained as a visit to a restarunt. In the highlighted steps earlier, I will explain the journey and how it all comes together to be our Destiny.
Predetermining Events: As previously explained, this is our choice of a major dessert to which we will eat at the Restarunt. Dessert will be served after our main meal and (if choosen) Entre. When in the candy store, we chose our desserts, and for each dessert is a visit to one of the Restarunts of Destiny. We need to go and eat there at some point (as explained in the time setting and movement of Destiny). From here, we are now ready to go out.
What We Wear: The experiences of our lives, doing whatever it is we choose to do and whatever it is we learn in the smaller lessons of life that are simply fate and luck. If we have had a very good run in life, and had things handed to us or simply been lucky in getting to a good position, we might wear a tuxedo and carry a cane and top hat. If we are more family orientated, we might wear a good dress shirt and pants and look respectable. In all respects, our clothing reflects very much our life at that point and the things we have faced, presently facing, learned, are learning, experienced and so forth. You can wear whatever you want, but it is very much going to reflect who you are. The clothing and accessorys might not even match, depending on how much we have been through in life up to that point.
Who we go with: While it is not going to be obvious from the beginning, we will not go to the restarunt alone. A family person may take their family members, while a street peddler might take some of the clients and dealers. The people who go with us are presently in our lives, but they are not the only ones who will be eating with us at the restarunt. If our Destiny is medical, you can expect to be dining with some doctors and nurses. If our Destiny is work related, we might be eating with some big CEO's and businessmen. People will stay for all three courses as well as bread sticks before and coffee afterwards, but it is safe to say that people might leave during the meal, not feel like eating all courses of the meal or have their own things to attend. In all examples, people will come and go. Some might return, some might be late, some might just take a bathroom break. But the people will come and go.
How we get there: Needless to say, we need to get to Restarunt somehow. This is reflected in two ways. the means of transport is the image, but it reflects on two things: one is our lives leading up to the restarunt, and the other is reflective of the style of our lives, as explained earlier. In each person's life, as we well know, we almost always have something going on, whether it be our daily life or extra things on top of that. It is most certain that not everyone is going to arrive by car. In my own example, I might show up in a taxi, on a bike or perhaps my restarunt is right near to a train station or bus stop. Some people might arrive by helicopter, boat, paddlesteamer or (in some instances) other worldly transit, but it is all down to the person. Some of it reflects our lives and interests, while other aspects might represnt who we are. But the journey is still the same for all of us, it is simply our lives from start o finish.
The Style of Restarunt: The Restarunt is all important. It reflects very much what it is we are facing. Some people, like myself, have a good idea what the Restarunt is going to look like, or what it might reflect to us personally. But some of us have no idea, and simply walk in blind to the things that await. This is not to suggest that people are blind to their Destiny, and that it can be prewarned to them in their lives. After that, they need to see the signs leading to the restarunt before their arrival. the restarunt itself reflects its aspects. It might remind us of a hospital, a part of our lives that we do not face or an aspect of life itself we do not enjoy. For example, someone who is destined to question their sexuality might come to a restarunt with the rainbow flag in neon above the door. Someone destined to face a major change in life might dine at a restarunt named 'Changes' which is collision of many building styles on the outside and inside. In all events, the outside and inside reflect very much the basis of events to come.
What We Eat: For our meal, we can order whatever we want. You can have a Cheese burger and fries in a five star restarunt, or a steak well done with salad and pasta in a corner cafe. The menu is as large as your imagination is wide and you can order whatever food you want, as can your dinner guests. What the different meals will represent are the major choices within the Destiny we face. Will we have chicken or beef? Won't we have fries with that? Should we have the experimental surgery? Could we possibly be seeing the world in a different light? Would it be so bad if I did this? The mix of questions and their symbolic links are all there. The number of courses you have is up to you and the people you dine with, and sometimes your hand will beforeced, and sometimes it won't. But as we eat, we are making the choices. And these choices are not only in the food, but how we eat. Mutton with your fingers? Fetachinni with chopsticks? Soup with a fork? Whatever works for you in this dining experience. 
How Much We Pay: Yes, this is as literal as it sounds. We face our Destiny to reach who it is we really should be and the major challenges we preset. Destiny, more often than not, is designed delicately to make us who we are supposed to be. Failure to forfill means going back and doing it again. In retrospect, not paying your bill is a good sign you will be doing dishes in the kitchen to work it off. We will inevitably have to give something up, volunterrily or not, to forfill our Destiny. I gave up quite a bit to get to this point of my Destiny, and I don't look back and regret it for a minute. It may be a pain in the arse to be taking my pills, not seeing as well and keeping many doctors appointments, but it has made me stronger, and I don't know any other way of living. But I gave up a lot to be here, and it will be the same for everyone. We won't always have a choice in the price of the restarunt, but we will need to pay. Not paying means our Destiny just takes longer to forfill until death, incarnation and repeating do you part, or working it off another way which is just as tedious. More often than not, this is the part of Destiny we all fear, and that is the change. But for some of us, the cange is forced, not choosen, and we need to face it. But should your Destiny yet to be forfilled, you need to be brave and pay the man at the cash register, and be sure that there is something most satisfying in paying for what has (or will be eventually viewed as) a good meal.
How Much We Tip: I do not expect everybody to follow this part, because, tipping is always optional. But for the people who have served us our destiny and have put a lot of effort into making something worth wild, you can be sure a tip is most welcome. For religious people like myself, it may be praise to your respective deity for aiding you, it may be offerings of food to an alter, donations to charity (in money, clothing or food) or simply acting in accordance with your Destiny. I am thankful to my spiritual beings every day that I am here to live my life, and that they Deity saw fit for me to live, and guided my Destiny where I was unable to choose for myself. I give back to my community and will continue to do so for many years to come. The work is always good. And for everyone, regurdless of the events of our Destiny, we should be grateful that we are beyond it and are (hopefully) better for it, or pray for guidance when we next face our Destiny.
How We Leave: As continuously stated, we will change throughout the course of our Destiny. We will become slightly or dramatically different people with new things we now know about ourselves, perhaps new things to live with/out and we need to adjust to that. This will dramatically effect our trasport away from the Restarunt, who we travel with and where we are going. We will still head to the end of our lives in our respective transport, but we will certainly be different for it. We might be in a completely different mode of transport when we leave. The important part of it is to accept the way we now travel through our lives. And, odds are, we may have even changed clothing, accessories and hair styles during our visit, and that is all apart of the event itself.


So what is it about us that makes us need a Destiny? It is the learning process of the soul. We cannot understand it from our perspective here on earth, or at least not completely, but if you read my earlier theory it will hopefully explain most of it to you, as this theory goes into explaining some of the choices we make between incarnations.
I have a theory. It is based on the major events of our lives. To you, whoever you are, I hope that your Destiny is a wonderful adventure, an experience for life and a turning point for your soul and it's evolution. Bon Appetit.


Earlier Theory (1): http://bookoftheory.blogspot.com/2010/12/theory-evolution-of-human-soul.html

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